For couples planning their wedding

Know the drama
before it happens.

Simulate how your family will react to every major wedding decision โ€” before the fallout happens in real life.

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r/weddingplanning · 847 upvotes
“Drama over seating chart ruined the day for us. Uncle stormed over to our table fuming mad.”
Posted 2 days ago
r/AmItheAsshole
“My parents are making it feel like a battleground. I am incredibly stressed about this.”
Posted 1 week ago
r/weddingplanning · 1.2k upvotes
“I honestly thought picking the venue would be the hardest part. Nope. It’s definitely the guest list.”
Posted 3 days ago
r/weddingshaming
“One member of my fiancé’s family that NOBODY will want to sit next to.”
Posted 5 days ago

What you can simulate

Every decision that could
cause a scene.

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Seating arrangements

Simulate how each table grouping lands before you commit. See who's likely to be offended and why.

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Guest list cuts

Predict how removing someone from the list affects your family dynamics โ€” and who's likely to make it an issue.

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Venue decisions

A venue change affects travel, budgets, and expectations. See which family members will push back hardest.

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Invitation decisions

Kids or no kids? Plus-ones? Simulate the family reaction before you finalise the invitation wording.

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Ceremony style

Religious, civil, or non-traditional? Predict which family members will be supportive, silent, or difficult.

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Difficult conversations

Get the recommended sequence โ€” who to tell first, how to frame it, and when to have the hardest calls.

How it works

Three steps to knowing
before doing.

1
Describe your family

Map your key family members as personality archetypes. No personal data โ€” just relationship dynamics.

2
Describe the decision

Tell us what you're planning โ€” the seating arrangement, the guest list change, the venue switch.

3
Get the friction map

See which family members are likely to react badly, why, and how to communicate the decision to minimise fallout.

Example output

Who's going to cause a scene.

Seating simulation โ€” Table 3 decision
5 agents simulated
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Mother of the bride โ€” "The Planner"
Will feel her opinion was ignored. Likely to mention it repeatedly in the week before. Low confrontation risk on the day but high background tension.
Monitor closely
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Uncle โ€” "The Feuder"
Table placement near his ex-wife is flagged as high risk. 4 in 5 simulations resulted in a visible confrontation before the first course.
Reassign table immediately
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School friends group โ€” "The Loyalists"
Happy with any seating near each other. No friction predicted. Will contribute positively to the room atmosphere.
No action needed
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Future mother-in-law โ€” "The Appraiser"
Expects a table near the front. Current placement may be interpreted as a slight. Recommend a brief conversation before the wedding to manage expectations.
Low risk if managed
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